When you are married so far away from home...

When you are married so far away from home...
You wish your family members understand how much you try to be strong and be fine at this new country...
You wish they understand that you are trying your best to give the best to them as you could...
It hurts when you cannot do as much as you wish and it hurts when they demolish what actually you have done for them all these while just because you can't reach to their expectation at this moment...

When you are married so far away from home...
You wish you could have a strong shoulder to lean on, a pair of good listening ears to accept all your complains and grumblers... this is the time that you miss your best friends the most. You miss the precious time you spent with your truthful girl friends... they listen, they share, they advice, they hug and they cry with you...

When you are married so far away from home...
You will know who are your good friends. Those who won't stop saying encouraging words to you, offering helps to you are very precious friends that God grants you. Also, you will find some so-called good friends start throwing rocks on you as you had made a very foolish decision marrying so far away. They are like serpents, they tease you, they say hurtful things to ruin your self esteem. You should be glad that you finally have a chance to see and review their real face clearly. Praise the lord for this! Amen!

When you are married so far away from home...
You should be stronger for yourself but no one else. Think of what you can do the best and choose to live the life you want and yet try to make everyone around you to be happy. You don't live on this earth for many decades and you don't really belong to any places of the earth. Be gladful that you still have your own strength to breath and be cheerful that you are living because you know the meaning of love...

I, will always remember the good things that happen around me, always appreciate the nice person that I have ever met in my life. I forgive and forget those people who mean or don't mean to hurt me. It is not worth at all to let them make me down. I will walk down the pathway of my live bravely because I know I am not walking alone...